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The Strategy That Turns Around a Losing Streak

Author: Sean D'Souza


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Agassi: Strategy That Turns Around a Losing Streak

Tennis superstar Andre Agassi was ranked No. 3 in the world at 18. Years later, he’d slumped to No. 24, and then slid further to No. 30.

He thought his game was over. He was just 23.

He’d turned professional at 16 and rocketed to the top, winning six ATP titles in barely two years and cracking the top ten. He blazed his way forward, until something changed.

He started losing.

Yes, there was a wrist injury, but tennis is brutal on every body, and players cling to their rankings through far worse.

With Agassi, no matter what he tried, he couldn't seem to get back to his position. He tried different coaches, and that didn't work. In a desperate move, he and his manager decided to change their strategy. They decided to take another active tennis player, Brad Gilbert, for dinner.

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During dinner, Agassi brought up the issues he was facing and asked Gilbert if he could help. Gilbert replied: “Dude, I can help you tomorrow. Let's go at 9:00.” And the two of them began working together the very next morning. However, before they started Gilbert had two pieces of advice. To this day, Agassi says it's what turned his game around.

It's the advice we could do with as well. So what did Gilbert say?

Suggestion 1: Stop trying to win every point.

Before Gilbert took over, Agassi was going for a winner on every shot. He wasn't content just to win; he had to get everything right. He sincerely believed that in order to be a great champion, he had to see off the competition by winning every point possible.

Gilbert decided this madness had to stop.

Gilbert told him he didn’t have to win every point, or hit a winner on every shot. This strategy had Agassi taking on too much risk and piling up unforced errors.

It's easy to see how we make the same unforced errors in our lives

Let's say you want to learn how to paint. You wake up one day, and there's the whole universe of watercolours in front of you. What do you do? You do what we all do: you make a bunch of unforced errors. The main error, is of course, trying to do everything. The course you've just bought covers a dozen different concepts, so you try them all.

You invariably end up with mud.

Then you decide you're not good at watercolours, you're not talented, blah, blah, blah. The reality is that you can't win every point. You can goof up on almost all the aspects of watercolours, and just work on getting the warm and cool tones right. Suddenly your work looks so much better than before. Instead of a downward spiral, you've turned your painting ability around.

When creating a strategy, we seem to make the same mistake.

When I got to New Zealand, I met with a coach. He asked me to write down my goals. I was elated. I wrote down at least two dozen things I would like to achieve. I know it sounds absurd now, but I thought it was the right way to go. He got me to choose just three goals. He then asked me to expand what I would need to do to achieve those three. Even three goals would fill a year. Instead, I’d been trying to win every point. Gilbert’s advice applied to me, too.

But the second piece of advice changed how Agassi looked at the man across the net.

Suggestion 2: You only have to be better than one guy.

“You don’t have to be the best in the world,” Gilbert told him. “You just have to be better than one guy.”

Gilbert was talking about an opponent, but the concept goes further than tennis. When you’re starting out, it’s normal to believe you need to be brilliant. In fact, you don't. You just need to be a little ahead of the one person you’re helping.

Take Lynda Weinman, who started lynda.com and later sold it for about $1.5 billion. She’s said she only knew a little more than her clients when she started teaching HTML. And that was all that was needed. She didn’t have to be the best in the world at HTML. She just had to be better than one guy.

We've been in business since 2000, and early on, I realised that it's impossible to know what the competition is thinking. What you can see is the person in front of you. To us that person was the client.

The only thing we needed to do was to be ahead of the client.

When we started the Protégé Consulting, there were no notes, no audio, no video.

Everything was created as we went along, and yes, things needed fixing along the way. The same applied to the cartooning course, the Article Writing Course, and now even the advanced storytelling course. When we do a watercolour course on site in Italy next year, the same strategy will roll out. We don't have to beat the competition. In fact, we aren't even aware of who they are or what they might be doing.

We only need to focus on being ahead of the client.

In business, we are inundated with dozens of ideas.
This information is wonderful to read, to keep on top of, but often it does quite the opposite. Instead, what we need is one or two benchmarks that we can measure consistently.

Agassi took these two small pieces of advice and turned his game around. I think we can do the same


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The Adventures in Greece: Part 2 (And A Meeting With Keanu Reeves)

Author: Sean D'Souza


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The Senator Lounge in Frankfurt is unlike any airport lounge I've ever been in.

We had flown through Frankfurt many times and never known that it existed. The main lounge sent us to the Senator Lounge because all of the other lounges were full. Plus, we had more than six hours to kill, so we might as well spend it in a less crowded location.

Like I always do, I pulled out my drawing books, did a bit of painting, and took some photographs. When I looked up, I noticed the man across the lounge checking the departures board, and he looked remarkably familiar. I don't usually recognise celebrities, and in the past I've sat right next to them and asked them what they do for a living. To me, at least, this man looked exactly like Keanu Reeves.

Renuka is a lot better with faces than I am, so I turned to her. She studied him carefully and came to a conclusion. “Yes,” she said, “that is definitely him.” I wasn't convinced he looked a lot different from the photograph I had last seen, so I pulled up some pictures on the internet. There he was, right in front of me, an exact match, so I went over and asked, “Are you Keanu?”

Without missing a beat, he says, “No, but I'm often mistaken for him.”

I could immediately see where this was going.
It must be no fun being a celebrity. First, someone approaches you, then they ask for a selfie. Suddenly, everybody else starts to notice, and your moment of quiet has descended into chaos. Plus I avoid selfies, and celebrities. But Keanu seems different, which is why I approached him in the first place.

Since I'd already started the conversation, we talked for a bit. We talked about my favourite topic, talent, and where we were headed. At some point, I asked for his name.

“Jonathan,” he said.

Which means nothing, but the moment I went back to my seat, I looked for Keanu's middle name. No, it's not Jonathan, it's Charles. Who is Jonathan? He's the character that Keanu Reeves plays in the film Bram Stoker's Dracula.

So did I meet Keanu or not? I'll leave that for you to decide.


Onwards to Singapore.

On the way back at Singapore airport lounge, you will not get the local coffee, but because you're in the lounge, any amount of coffee is free. So I take the escalator down, walk 200 m, and get a kopi. And I pay $2 for this privilege.

Then I have to bring it back to the lounge and transfer it into the lounge coffee mug because they will not microwave it if it is in the non-lounge coffee mug.

After which I have to get the original coffee mug washed so that I can return it 200 metres away on my way to the security check.


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The Adventures in Greece: Part 1 (Stories)

Author: Sean D'Souza


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Do you know that safety video on planes, that most of us seem to ignore? I’d watch it, not carefully, but one point stuck in my head on Singapore Airlines flights. They seemed to emphasise that if a phone slipped and fell in between the seats, you should not try to retrieve it. Instead, they […]

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Why Motivated People Procrastinate

Author: Sean D'Souza


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How to use procrastination to your advantage

“We just got married,” said the owner of the cafe, and showed me the photos on her phone. “Aren’t you going to put them in an album?” I asked her. “Oh yes, I would love to do that,” she said. I told her how I’d created some mind-boggling photo albums recently, and she was keen […]

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The Reality About Getting 1% Better Every Day

Author: Sean D'Souza


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My wife, Renuka, can’t stand the taste or smell of milk. Yoghurt, though, she’s fine with. And that’s lucky, because yoghurt does something remarkable to your gut. It’s protein, and every spoonful delivers somewhere around 350-400 million individual probiotic organisms. That number sounds impressive, until you find out that a single tablespoon of kefir carries […]

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Advanced Story Telling Course:

Author: Sean D'Souza


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What to expect in Part 2—A solid, working story bank — personal stories, non-personal stories, analogies, all stored and accessible—The ability to write a complete chapter in Brain Audit format—The ability to build a presentation/podcast that maintains continuous interest—Mastery of the connection: any story to any article—Tidy up of mistakes/blind spots in storytelling in phase […]

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The Roundabout Principle: Why Self-Management Actually Works (And How to Make It Stick)

Author: Sean D'Souza


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Once a course ends, it’s often just the beginning of a journey. Think about it for a moment: you’ve finished a course—like an article writing or a storytelling course, and you’ve just managed to put all the pieces together. Now you need to keep going. That’s the point when the teacher leaves the room, and […]

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Storytelling: Why The Ending Matters Most Of All When You’re Crafting A Story

Author: Sean D'Souza


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(This is an unedited transcript) Notice something strange when you tell a story? People are always waiting for you to finish because they want to know the point of the story. This subtle curiosity level gives us an advantage. It means that we can play director and change the path of the story. Every story […]

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The Art Of Misdirection: How To Get Your Point Across Without an Argument

Author: Sean D'Souza


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(You can listen to the audio of the article too. Click here: The Art of Misdirection) When I was younger, I could easily get myself into quite a few friendly arguments. Like everybody, I have opinions, and some of them are stronger than others.The biggest problem with an opinion is that it is almost never […]

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How To Overcome The Obvious Fears Of Group Consulting

Author: Sean D'Souza


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When we started, we didn’t have groups, or group consulting. I worked with individuals like you do, and then with companies, but each and every trip was time spent on meetings and more meetings. I can tell you right away that if you get rid of meetings, and Zoom and all of that nonsense, you […]

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